So you’ve got Facebook, added a couple of photos, ‘friended’ a few people and added your birthday. Now what do you do? Well, actually this is more of a ‘now wind forward three weeks and what do I do?’ post.
One day hopefully you wake up and you suddenly have 50 friends on Facebook. It’s about this time you also realize that your ‘friends’ are from different pockets of humanity. Some are school-friends, some are work colleagues and some are just casual acquaintances. And that’s okay. Well it’s sort of okay. The problem is that you want to keep up with them in different ways and also perhaps not allow certain of your friends to see certain things (like the weird video you posted from Youtube). That’s where creating lists comes in very handy.
Lists of Friends
If you click on your ‘Friends’ tab on the homepage you’ll be taken to a page that shows all the latest status updates of your friends. But on the left hand side of the page there is a little graphic that says ‘Friends Lists’ and a button labeled ‘Make a New List’. This is your friend. Now before you go ahead and click the button, have a think about what groupings you want for your friends and who you want to be in which list (and don’t worry, you can put friends in multiple lists).
When you’ve worked out who should be in which list, click the button and type in the name of your new list. You will then be taken to a screen similar to below. At this point you can either type friends’ names in the box or click ‘Select Multiple Friends’, which will give you your complete friends list to choose from. It’s a pretty simple process to complete.

Okay, so now you’ve created your lists, what are you going to do with them? Here comes the tricky part of the operation. For the sake of an example I am going to demonstrate how I can hide my photos and wall posts from one of my groups ‘xLimited’. You can follow this procedure for any lists you have created.
Privacy - Wall Posts

As I mentioned, this is where it gets a little tricky. There are features in Facebook, hidden away in the bowels and this is one of them. It just feels like it is in the wrong place. Anyway, in my example, if I want to stop friends in the ‘xLimited’ list from being able to view my wall posts I do the following. Firstly, click on the tab at the top of the home page that says ‘Settings’. Then choose the ‘Privacy Settings’ option. You will get a screen as above. Now choose ‘Profile’ which seems a little odd to me as there is one called ‘…Wall’ further down. Anyway, click Profile and you will get something similar to below.

As you can see, I’ve already modified my privacy options to something that works for me. But on with the example. About halfway down there is an option for ‘Wall Posts’. First you get to choose whether friends are allowed to post to your wall at all. Assuming you say ‘Yes’ then you further get to choose exactly who. Clicking the dropdown for Wall Posts allows you choices of ‘Everyone’, ‘My Network and Friends’, ‘Friends of Friends’, ‘Only Friends’, ‘Only Me’, ‘No One’, ‘Customize’ and also any networks you belong to. The default is set to ‘My Network and Friends’. This means that anyone who is in, for example, ‘Seattle’ (if this is your network) and also all your friends, can post to your wall. They can post whatever they want on your wall. Hmmm.
So, decide who you want posting to your wall and if you have also created a list of friends (in my example ‘xLimited’) you don’t want to post to your wall, you need to select ‘Customize’ as your main option. If you do, the following screen will appear:

At the bottom of the box you get a chance to exclude whoever you want; individuals or lists. Lists make it easier in the long run to maintain. So, for me I just type in ‘xLimited’ and click ‘Okay’ and it’s done. Then click ‘Save Changes’ on the main page and no one from your ‘xLimited’ group will now be able to write on your wall (or see most things come to think of it!). Shame! Using this method you can change many of the options available to your friends.
Privacy - Photo Albums
The second thing I wanted to do was stop the ‘xLimited’ list from seeing my photos too. On the screen we were just on (where we modified the ‘Profile’) about halfway down there is a label that reads ‘Edit Photo Albums Privacy Settings’. If you click that you get taken to the page headed ‘Privacy - Photos’.

Then you can apply the same procedure as above to stop friends from seeing your photos. Hopefully, you’re starting to get the idea here. Play around with the Profile pages and make all the changes you want. There’s also an option to display your Facebook page as if you were a particular person. That way you can easily see if your intended changes did what they were supposed to do.
Hiding Friends’ Posts
There are times when all you want to do is hide individual friends’ statuses or messages. This is a relatively easy thing to do. Just go to your ‘home page’ (you know, the tab marked ‘Home’!) and hover your mouse over someone’s status or application message. A little ‘X’ will appear on the right hand side of the posting and if you move your mouse over that ‘X’ you will see a little message that displays ‘Hide xxx’ (where xxx is your friend). Simply click the ‘X’ and all the statuses from that person go away and will never darken your Facebook again.
If at any time you want to re-display a ‘hidden’ friend, just scroll to the bottom of the screen and find the message that looks like below.

Click it, and you can re-include that friend once more. Simple.
The Wall
Did you know that anyone who has you as a friend can see everything that people have posted on your wall? Maybe that’s a scary thought? Furthermore, if someone has you and the other person as friends, they can see the complete ‘wall-to-wall’ conversation! If that’s not what you want, then maybe you need to either change your privacy settings for ‘wall posts’ or think very carefully about what you write on people’s walls!
Bookmarks
Where did that amazing application that I started using go to? I’m sure I had it yesterday. Is this something you’ve said a few times?
Facebook hides away your applications unless you create bookmarks for them.

Click on the ‘Applications’ tab in the bottom left hand corner of the screen and a pop-up will appear showing your bookmarks (see above). The pop-up is split into three sections, ‘Recently Used’, ‘Bookmarks’ and more ‘Bookmarks’. The first section of bookmarks (6 of them) appear on your status bar too, for quick access. You can drag and drop items around on the pop-up as you wish. But what do you do if the application you want is not on the pop-up list? Easy - you click the ‘Edit’ button at the top of the list. Then the main screen above appears. At this point decide which application you want to be ‘bookmarked’ and press ‘Edit Settings’. The following screen will then appear:

You have four tabs available to you,the first of which, guess what, relates to your wall. This is where you can turn off that application specific stuff that is churned out. If you click the ‘Bookmark’ tab, you will get a screen (see below) that enables you to send the application to bookmarks and it will appear on the bottom of the bookmarked applications list when you click ‘Okay’. Then you can drag the bookmarked application to wherever you want on the list.

Summary
Well, I’ve covered a lot of topics in a short space of time, but I hope you have a better understanding of how to make Facebook work for you now. Let me know if there are other things you’d like me to post about and I’ll write a follow-up blog post in a couple of weeks.
Have fun…